I am truly in love. someone else. Do not hold on to crumbling down sandcastle. Seeing the person you love fall in love with someone else can destroy you. It was my first job and he was my first love. I was in a relationship with someone that was completely wrong for me while longing to be with someone else. In their view, love represents a total devotion of one person—heart, soul, and body—to another, which implies that you can never love a second person without taking something away from the … But such reactions are … By this point, you’re in. I didn’t want to tell you all. I’ve been in love with the same girl for over a decade now. The crush was an idea of who the person was I wasn't actually in love with them, the more I got to know my crush the less of a crush I had on them. But your love becomes tiring more and more. You are a good person. There were sparks between us that I had only seen between two people in movies. Now, songs like "Crazy In Love" and "Can't Help Falling in Love" bring to mind someone else, even though you know you shouldn't be thinking about them. You’ve acknowledged that you’re in love with someone who isn’t “yours,” someone who is in a committed relationship, so you’ll try to set rules for yourself. Your best friend is going through a difficult time at work, and for some unexplained reason you're starting to feel depressed, too. A Reader Writes… I recently began re-reading your book I Love You but I’m Not in Love With You and the material is the closest advice that I can sincerely relate to. When they're sad, you're sad. I will not make excuse, I will tell you all. I'm so sorry baby I know I ain't right... no no no no no no For what I did to you baby Ooh ooh yea I can't explain why it's him and not you (no no no no no) But at the end of the day (day) baby I just don't want to (want to) Cause he ain't no doctor(no) I was 19, he was 22. I am in love with someone else. If you say to yourself, “I’m married, but in love with someone else,” it can be a challenge that’s a little more complicated than one would think. I have fallen in love with someone else but I am married to a patient and loving husband yet somehow I’m still not fulfilled. When you’re in a loving relationship and you suddenly find yourself thinking about someone else, it can spark confusion, fear and namely, concern. Do not try any more. I know because it almost destroy me. Asaf R. We first met when we were very young. The … 18. I sometimes worry but I forget all about you. Shutterstock.